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Friday, November 28, 2008

Understanding..

Its a tough word. So vast in meaning, scope and application. What to understand? Whom to Understand? How to make someone understand. Its tough, really!! Take, for instance, this example.
You are upset. There are a thousand reasons for you to be upset. They are all petty and they are numerous. You dont know which one to state, which one to ponder upon, where to draw the line and most difficult of all, how to make someone understand why they are important enough to be issues which can upset you and inturn upset others. 
Now what do you do? You try and ignore some of them. You try to find solution to some of them. You solve some of them. You are feeling better. You have also succeeded in trying to put a small bit here and there of all this crap in someone's mind. And when you finally are at a stage where you are over these, the understanding gives way; or rather the misunderstanding gives way to some more of them. And then, its like a chain reaction.
Consider this. You made someone understand why you were upset. And you got over it. And you are all happy because the one whom you told about this all has said he/she understood and understands and will understand. And then all of a sudden, something happens, very small, very petty, not at all important and all of it goes for a toss.
Now, I know its making no sense.. but you have got to realize, if I were good enough to make you understand what I meant I would never have been writing this post in the first place..
So, Keep tryin.. n lemme knw wen u do... UNDERSTAND